questioning love.

day 1 at curiousness 

Hello everyone who is seeing this space..
Im a newbie to this blogging place.. always thought of blogging my thoughts as they grew on me but always kept procrastinating about it! psst! everyone does that!
but yesterday when i encountered insomnia because of this i felt the need to let it all out.. let all the questions, thoughts and ideas out.. let all the feelings, dilemmas and fixes out..
so here i am! with my curiosity..

woke up to the first question of the day that was outcome of my previous night's happenings.. the question says..
 Is it possible for anyone to change for someone who they love?
Or want to be with them for life?
... even if that change means leaving a deep rooted habit?
lets just say the habit is bad for you and for them too.. then what?

well, everyone has a different opinion about it.. some would say yes, and some would say no.
now the real deal is, is it even right? To change for someone you love? or wait for someone who would love the way you are.. even if that means accepting you with all your good and bad?

*please drop your comments over it, views and opinions are appreciated and needed*

And if you ask what i say, I would say change!
At least try doing it for someone whom you want to be with.. for someone with whom you are willing to stay! coz its you who will take this forward.. you need to put in everything you've got to make them stay coz honestly this is the best thing that could happen to you and you cant let this chance go..
Change things!
Change yourself!
Change the way they would see you.. let them see you the way you want them to!
coz when you love someone you love them with all you have.. and that's the way it is supposed to be!

.. And even if you cant change, even if you cant change after trying.. don't force them to stay with you.. coz over the time you yourself will be left with anger and frustration that they aren't able to accept you the way you are. You wont change but the things will and no, not in a good way.. but in a way that they can never go back to the point of being mended!

*feel free to ask and tell*

P.S- hope my first was not that bad! will try to improve.. afterall, who says the first has to be the best :)

- curious since '93