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questioning breakups and complications

Day 2 at curiousness

"... don't question me for the things i do to repair what you broke.."

yes, that's a story in one line.. saying it all in just few words

Hello again people,
Today i came across a very strange thought that supposedly was the outcome of what i saw..
soo, there was a couple.. possibly in their 20's and they seemed to be arguing over something and after few minutes the girl cried and the guy ruffled his hair in disappointment and they walked away in opposite direction mumbling something to themselves..
Aaaaand now my curious mind asks..
when people go through breakups or hardships or lets say complications in relationships..
what do they revert to?
what do they look for to make them feel alright again?
what could they possibly do to make them forget all the bitterness around?
if someone leaves you feeling all empty what could you use to fill yourself up?

*drop your comments and views*

Everyone.. I say everyone is this whole wide world has something or the other which he/she may do to forget everything!
some people take alcohol (many infact!).. Some would travel to forget.. some would dance all night long with people whom they don't even know, finding comfort in strangers.. some would jump down a cliff or go for diving just to feel that adrenaline rush and forget what were they going through and if nothing beats the jitters caused by breakups or complications people take suicide as the last resort to end it all. 

Now i may ask why?
what makes you think doing any of those things would make you feel better when at the end of the day you will ultimately face the truth when you are lying in bed?
why everyone has to forget and find ways to forget things rather than repairing what has been broken by talking and sorting it all out?
isn't talking about it more easier than any of the other things you would do to make yourself feel better?
isn't doing all those things making you feel more empty than anything else ever did?

I guess everyone knows the answer to it yet no one wants to face it.. 


well, face it.. face whats going on! either make it all up.. put efforts.. try until you are done trying!
And dont give up easy!
coz regretting is harder than trying.. trying for the right thing ofcourse! (you cant try for someone who treats you sh*t) 
Or break it all down .. not everyone is meant to be with you all your life.. start from the scratch.. believe in everything, All. Over. Again!

Relationships are meant to grow you, to make you fall in love with the world a little more, to make you feel you are not hard to love and to let you know its a better place to live in.
.. Not to make you stop believing in love or think that you aren't worth it..

*if this inspired you or made you feel better please drop comments. you can also drop your opinions and ideas over this.*

P.S - hope i am able to deliver my thoughts in a simple way! let me know if something has to be changed. Thank you!

- curious since '93


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